Middle-school is generally the phase in the student’s life when a numerous relationships sprout out. Middle-school is the time when boys and girls achieve puberty and thus due to a change in hormone levels they start getting attracted to each other both at a physical level as well as an emotional level. Relationships in middle-school are basically as a result of infatuation. Some relationships last for a very long time while some relationships fade away with passage of time.
Here are some tips that you should keep in mind to have a good relationship in middle-school:
1) Be a friend first:
If you are interested in someone or if you have a crush on someone who studies in your class or school, the first step that you should take before being in a relationship is to be friends with them. By being a friend you can have a basic idea about the other’s likes and dislikes. You can also have a measure of the compatibility between you two before you start getting more close to each other.
2) Look out for someone who likes you or in other words has crush on you:
There may be certain guys/girls who are in love with you or have a huge crush on you but fail to let you know in the fear of getting refused. Thus, you have to look out for the one who takes special interest in you and who loves to hang out with you. Things will get much easier when the person you like likes you too.
3) Give some space, don’t complicate things:
Middle school is the time when both guys and girls are immature. You should not by any means stalk them or make them irritated. Ease out things between both of you, be a bit more relaxed and let things just happen.
The best thing you can do to increase your chances is to hang-out with the other and spend quality time with them. In that way you will be more close to the other. Secrets will be shared between each other and thus you will be closer to the other.
5) Don’t give any attention to rumors:
If you hear any kind of rumors about your crush or your new love just don’t listen to them. Confront the other instead and solve them out. If you find that your partner is cheating on you or is not serious about you, do not let things proceed with him/her.
6) Show affection:
The best possible way to win over her is to show love and affection. Show that you love him/her and you care for them a lot and prove it. Sooner or later they will surely love you back.
7) Have fun:
The best possible way to be successful in a relationship is to stay happy. Being young students you shouldn’t try to complicate life. Keep it as simple as possible. Don’t hurt yourself or don’t stay glum if things don’t turn out well. Live, laugh and love should be your motto.