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How to Decipher a Boy’s Character

October 6, 2012

When a guy approaches a girl for dating and a possible relationship, there is a lot of apprehension on the part of the girl. The common question they seek an answer is regarding what the character of the guy is. This is because a guy may be very good looking, but the excitement towards good looks reduces with time. What makes a relationship real strong and makes sure it is long is the character of the person. Everybody wants to be with a person who is really nice, friendly, cares for you and wants you to be happy. Nobody wants to be with a selfish person who seeks only their own happiness, and wants to use you in order to achieve that happiness.

When you want something, you are really nice to people who can give it to you, right? In the same way, when you want to date a girl, you are really nice to that girl. You do things that you would not normally do, and try to show the best side of yourself, even if it does not exist. In simple terms, we tend to become fake in order to impress others. The thing is that, girls know about it. Girls know that guys are extra sweet to them when they are trying to impress them. They do things which are not characteristic of themselves, and that is perhaps why they take so much time to ponder over whether to go ahead with a relationship or not.

Girls do want to know about character of guys, but they are clueless as to how to separate the original parts from the fake parts. Many people are unable to distinguish, and hence fall into the trap. There are a few simple tips in order to try to get to know more about the character of the guy.

  1. Check how he behaves with others – He’ll always be sweet to you, without a doubt. But you should try checking how they behave with other people, such as friends or strangers. It is important to see how they behave with people in whom they have no vested interests, such as a waiter in a restaurant. If they behave well with them and treat them with respect, it’s a sign the person is a good guy who respects others. Also, check how he is around animals. If he loves animals and cares for them, then he should be a nice person. If he’s scared of animals, that’s fine as well. But if you find the guy treating animals harshly, then that’s not the best sign.
  2. Give it time – Don’t rush into decisions. This gives you time to check the patience of the boy, whether he has committed to you properly or whether he is just trying his luck with you. It also gives you more time to read the guy and know about him.
  3. Talk to his friends – Talk to people who are his friends or were his friends. If he’s a nice guy, they’ll be full of praise for him. If they do not praise him much, and are holding back their opinions, then you should take a clue that something might be wrong.

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