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Important tips to follow while starting a relationship

September 25, 2012

Everybody wants to be successful and happy in a relationship. While success means different things for different persons; for one it mean a good and crazy short term relationship, and for another it may mean a happy, stable and long term relationship. Whatever it is, one wants something from a relationship to be happy, and hence there are important things that one needs to do before starting a relationship to ensure that it is a happy one.

  1. Find out what you want: It is very important to firstly recognize what you want from a relationship. This will happen with a bit of self inspection, and will help you look for the right partner and ensure that you do not end up in the wrong relationship.
  2. Look for a partner that matches your interest: Secondly, you should start looking for a person who wants the same thing from a relationship as you do; else things all get messed up. Imagine yourself out in the open looking for a short term relationship and you start dating a girl who wants a permanent commitment. Things are going to get uneasy after quite a while because you both want different things, and it will lead to unnecessary unpleasantness.
  3. Talk it out with your partner: The next step you can do after finding a partner is to clear out important things. These things if not cleared beforehand, can cause havoc in the later stages of a relationship. You should clarify what you want from a relationship, the type of person you are and some additional things, such as your bad habits, if any. This will let her know what to expect, and things will get easier.
  4. Don’t fake yourself: In any relationship, it is important to be yourself from the beginning till the end. It is understandable that initially there is much excitement, and you tend to be over-accommodating and too pleasant. But if that is not a part of what you are, then refrain from doing it. Also, never lie about what kind of a person you are. Your partner might be in for a rude shock, if they fall in love with the person they think you are, and then later discover that you are an entirely different person altogether.
  5. Be sincere: Whatever the type of relationship you want, be sincere in it. You should take out time for your partner and spend time with her, and the initial phases of any relationship are very special, and you should enjoy them to the fullest. You should go out for regular outings if possible, and have fun. Also, if there are any other issues, you should talk it out. There are people who have slight personal issues such as money or family, and it is important to talk it out. If you talk it out, it shall only show your sincerity and nobody would judge you on the basis of them, and if they do, then it’s their loss, not yours.



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