If you are involved in a long term relationship then you must know three phases of a relationship. These phases are important because you must know in which phase you belong and what precautionary steps should be taken to maintain a healthy relationship. Below we are going to discuss these 3 phases in details.
Starting love phase – when a relationship starts you will feel very happy and everything will flow smoothly. Mistakes made by your partner won’t bug you because you will simply avoid it. This is the phase where most of the couples concentrate only on the better part of the relationship. This phase normally occurs during first 6 to 12 months. During this period, every couple believe that their partner is the right one for them and they want to spend their life with that particular partner. But the main mistake is that they don’t try to analyze their partner and their mistakes, which generally becomes a serious problem later on.
The durability phase – this is the second phase in any relationship and the most important one. We call it durability phase. This phase occurs during next 1 year to 4 years. This is the phase where you will find your partner very annoying and disturbing at the same time. You will easily get irritated by their simple mistakes, which you used to overlook in past. This is a very tough period in anyone’s life because you stay confused about your relationship and you constantly think about getting rid of it. Most couples get separated in this phase because of simple misunderstandings. If you want to avoid this phase, then you must communicate with your partner very often and tell him/her about your feelings. You must share things, which annoys you a lot and at the same time try to understand your partner’s feelings.
The relaxation phase – this phase is the best phase of any relationship. Couples who have crossed the durability phase enjoy this period a lot and they continue living with their partner till the end. In this phase, you understand each other’s mentality and you know each and every detail about each other. This phase usually occurs after 5 years. If you want to enjoy this phase, then you will have to cross two phases which are discussed above. Mental piece and real fun of life is guaranteed in this phase.
Above three phases are very important if you want a successful relationship. Nowadays, lots of break ups are happening and above mentioned points will help you if you are going through same phases in your relationship.