It is common for people to see themselves better than what they really are. Statistics show that we tend to see ourselves six times more handsome than what we really are. So how do we get others to see what we see in us? The answer is as simple as it goes – become our better selves.
If you are like most people, you probably write your new-year’s resolutions, and forget about them or find a lazy excuse not to do them right after New Year passes. Well if you are dating and you want to be taken seriously by women, you have to start to take yourself more seriously as well.
Women like to see confidence in men. But in order for you to become more confident, you have to start being the person you want to be. Get up with the thought that everything in your life is exactly what you want it to be. Get up with a smirk on your face and know that if you want, you can do anything you set your mind to.
Don’t forget to work on your body. Women love abs, regardless of what they say, and you should forget excuses like “my lady will love me for who I am”. If you are a lazy slob, no woman will want to be with you. Take up a serious program in the gym and really work on your body. Become something you like – someone, who other men want to be, and women want to be with.
Your looks are very important if you are in the dating life and you should not take first impressions for granted. In most cases serious relationships start with “love at first sight”, and if you are not giving out your best looks, you may end up not having such an experience.
Work is also important – you should not be concentrated so much around your career, but more on your love life. Money is important, but don’t let them capture your mind. Set your brain to “dating”, and forget about your other problems. Of course, don’t take extreme measures like quitting your job; just don’t concentrate on it as much.
If you improve yourself and if you can see in yourself everything that you dreamt of being, then you are bound to find a girl, who will love you very soon. Remember that in the dating life looks are very important, so take your time and work on your body. Become more confident and try to free up some free time.
By improving yourself you will find that it will be much easier for you in the dating life. Even if you are in a relationship, if you are taking care of yourself and if you are confident enough, you can ensure that the said relationship could last a very long time. Don’t be lazy and start thinking of what your weaknesses are and what can you improve in yourself. Once you improve yourself and your way of life, you will see the improvement it brings to your dating life.