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Whether you’re newly dating or have been married for decades, asking each other questions is one of the best ways to get the ball rolling and start some great conversations between the two of you.
You can ask each other fun questions like “What’s your favorite topping for pizza?” or they can be more serious questions such as “What do you want to accomplish in life?”
While I could spend hours trying to come up with a list of questions you should ask your lover, fortunately a popular writer named Michael Webb took care of all of that – he created a book called 1000 Questions for Couples.
Couples today often run into a lot of communication barriers. Maybe we’re too shy to really talk about things like intimacy, or maybe there are things we want to know about our partner but we’re too afraid to ask. Some people think 1000 questions might be too many – but there’s really no limit to how well you can know your partner. 1000 questions to me is just a dent in the things you could be learning about each other. Couples who have been married for 25 years can benefit from this book just as much as couples who have only been dating for a few months!
The book is in ebook format, which is my favorite way to get a book. For starters, you don’t have to wait (or pay!) for shipping – as soon as the sale is processed you’ll be able to download it and start reading. (You can seriously be reading it in less than 3 minutes from now!) The ebook comes with a 100% money back guarantee, too – so if for whatever reason you don’t like it or think it will help your relationship, you can get a full refund. Another nice perk is you can also choose to have questions emailed to you, making it a hassle free way to remember to ask your partner all of them!
If you decide to get the book (you can order and download it here), here are some creative ideas to use it to help bring you and your partner closer together:
1. Make a Love Questions Jar: Since it’s an easy to download and print book, you can print out the pages (maybe one or two at a time, no need to print out all 1000 questions right away!) and cut each question out. Fold up all of the little pieces of paper and stick them into a jar that you keep by your bed or on the table and each day while eating breakfast together or before you go to sleep for the night, pull out a question and answer it.
2. Email the Questions: If you and your partner communicate a lot by email, you can also take turns emailing back and forth the questions and answers. This is a heck of a lot better way to spend your time at the office distracted than sitting around playing computer games!
3. Bring Them With You on a Road Trip: A road trip is a great opportunity for you and your partner to talk about things without worrying about being interrupted. Print the pages out and take turns talking about each question.
4. Take it Slow: There’s no need to rush through the 1000 questions in a couple of days. Each question is meant to give you and your partner a starting point for a discussion. Don’t just answer the question as fast as you can and move onto the next – take some time and really think about it.
Do you and your partner really know each other as well as you think you do? If you’re looking for an easy and affordable way to get to know each other better and grow closer as a couple and lovers, finding the right relationship questions to ask your lover is a must. What are you waiting for? You could start asking them the first few questions today!
Click here for 1000 Questions for Couples
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It was three years before I even told my (now ex-) wife my real name. She wasn’tone to fuss over detail.
I gave prospective hubbies a multiple choice questionnaire. They were allowed three “wrong” answers but I didn’t tell them which three. One guy who had “proposed” all sweetly threw the form back at me declaring “I’m not taking no bleeping test!” which made it so easy to decline his proposal. Guess that one knew he would have flunked, lol. But when the right fellow came along, he was only too happy to check off the boxes, and he passed with flying colors.
Twenty, and then thirty, and then forty years later people would ask, “How did you get such a good one?” and I tell them I gave him a test.
If you want to be secure in your relationship, you must first be secure with yourself. Lack of self confidence can create a problem in your relationship and affect your life. Self respect is an important factor in making any relationship safe without problem.